At the conclusion of the last post, I was feeling pretty good about how things were going. I had caught a few fish and had built some extremely important confidence. I think, a lot of the time, whether you think you will or you won't, you are probably right. I was riding a wave of confidence and felt like I could keep catching fish if I continued with my technique. While that is true, and as with most stories, there are always a few bumps in the road. Life is never that simple.
Friday, August 29, 2025
Fly Fishing In Gulf Shores, Alabama- Part 3- Figuring it Out
At the conclusion of the last post, I was feeling pretty good about how things were going. I had caught a few fish and had built some extremely important confidence. I think, a lot of the time, whether you think you will or you won't, you are probably right. I was riding a wave of confidence and felt like I could keep catching fish if I continued with my technique. While that is true, and as with most stories, there are always a few bumps in the road. Life is never that simple.
Wednesday, August 20, 2025
Fly Fishing In Gulf Shores, Alabama- Part 2- No Clue What to Do
Tuesday, August 12, 2025
Fly Fishing In Gulf Shores, Alabama- Part 1- Preparation
Friday, August 8, 2025
Catching Hybrid Stripers with My Dad and My Son on Different Trips
Tuesday, August 5, 2025
Hoots Custom Flies and Guides
Link: https://www.hootscustomflies.com/
“Don’t ever judge a book by its cover.” The older I get, the more this metaphor makes sense to me. Whether it is someone that I just met or a student in my classroom, I have to constantly remind myself that it is difficult to really understand what someone has been through and what makes them, holistically, they way he or she is. Take for example Alex Gibson, also known as Rooster. I met Rooster at the Frontline Fly Fishing Fly Tying Gala earlier this year. While I followed Rooster on social media, I had never actually met the guy. It was nice to hear about his guide service and see the flies that he tied. He invited me to go fishing with him, which was really nice of him, and we concluded our first meeting that way.
At some point, Rooster asked me if I could share his story with others. He gathered that I like to write and asked if I could help him clean up some writing that he wanted to send me. Without hesitation, I agreed to help him out. I didn’t know what to expect from him but my curiosity was piqued. Nothing could have prepared me for what he sent my way and I was reminded of the aforementioned phrase, “Don’t ever judge a book by its cover.” I had no idea what Rooster had been through in his life because I didn’t know him that well. The following is his story, mostly in his words, but spoiler alert: this is a roller coaster of a read!
The Story of a Broken Boy Trying to be a Fly Fisherman
I don't really like talking about myself very much and I don't really remember why this makes me me feel uncomfortable. Maybe it is the horrible decisions I made in my past like misplaced passions, addiction, or heart that I broke. Or maybe it is the feeling of being judged. I feel like I'm not that good of a person anyways so why should I care? I care because I'm trying to be better than what I have done and where I have come from. Maybe there is a part of me that feels like a dog that needs to be pat on the head and told he is doing a good job.
I have always believed in God. When I was younger, I was angry at God. I wondered why things were the way they were and why my life had turned out like it had. I questioned why I didn’t have this and why come I can't have that. I would sometimes scream, in a drunken rage. “Take away your cup! I don't want to drink from your cup! I don't want live!” I have tried to kill myself multiple times. Eventually, I almost got to the point where I was beginning to think I was invincible or immortal. At other times, I begged for his love. Some days I would wake up in the morning with a hangover and crying “Forgive me Father. Fill my cup. Let it overflow. Your will is my path.”
A lot of people tell me, “God must have a big plan for you.” I wanted to believe this. Eventually, something happened to me that made me believe that God did have a plan for me.
On December 12, 2012, I was having trouble with the wonderful mother of my two amazing daughters. It destroyed me because of how much I love my children. My friends saw my pain from the situation so they invited me to party with them. At the point that I was at in my life and the way I was living, partying to avoid the pain was how I dealt with the hurt. I should have went home and read the Bible to look for guidance to fix things and should not have been so darn selfish. Instead, I went to a party with a handful of pills and some pot.
Before the party, a buddy cut me up some morphine pills that I snorted. When I got to the party, I handed shots out to everyone. It seemed like everybody was feeling bad so I tried to put that smile on that very seldom leaves my face but I couldn’t. It was gone. In an effort to bring it back, I started doing a bunch of, what they called “rooster bombs”. This entailed taking a hit of weed, snorting a pill, taking a shot, and then exhaling. This was an excellent combination to black out and make bad choices.
Eventually, the party started to settle down. My buddies headed to different rooms of the house to crash and I was sitting all alone. I was alone with my thoughts. This was the most dangerous thing in the world. When my mind starts to wander, the darkness sets in and causes the most painful rages. It felt like I was trying to fight Mike Tyson because I didn’t have a chance to win.
After wrestling with my thoughts and emotions for long enough, I decided to go eat at the Taco Bell that was just across the street.
I started to walk across the yard and hopped the fence. I called the mother of my wonderful children and started crying, “Please let me see my kids tomorrow.” In my condition, it did not register that she was trying to tell me that I could see my kids, but just not at the house that I was partying at. I don't remember hanging up the phone. I don't remember the drunk driver that hit me at 65 mph as I crossed the street. I don't remember the two college students that called 911 and dragged me out of the road. I woke up in the hospital but I don't remember that either. At some point I was moved out of the intensive care unit. That was when I really woke up.
I was asked who the president was. I said Bill Clinton, which was wrong. They asked me where I lived. I actually lived in Arkansas at the time, but I gave them a South Dakota address where I lived when I was 14 years old. I eventually gave up answering questions and said, “Well give me the right answer and I'll tell you that!” Instead, they told me the date and then told me what happened.
I had a fractured skull and looked like someone took a baseball bat to my skull. You could see a spot as big as a quarter from where the antenna of the car had hit me. After the accident, they found a chunk of my hip bone in my pocket. I got a metal rod in my back and one in my hip. I had some wire holding my pelvis together and some fancy kind of glue holding my other hip together. The seriousness of my injuries still didn't really register at that time. I didn't see the seriousness behind it and I laughed it off. The severity of my situation eventually set in. Days passed and I remained in the hospital. My birthday came and went regardless of my condition.
My family from California and Kansas came by to see me. By then, I had gotten pretty good with using the wheelchair that I was confined to. I also started to raise a lot of hell and started to become ornery in my new home. I needed something to keep me occupied both physically and mentally. As fate would have it, my uncle came by and he gave me a fly rod. It was a Cabela's Stowaway five weight, which I still have today. The fire was lit right then and there.
It was six months after that I started walking. Being in a wheelchair that long makes you look like a cartoon character. Your upper body looks excellent but your lower body looks thin and weak. As soon as I could, I started picking up the fly rod and casting in the backyard. I stayed close to home because I was too scared to cross the street. Out of necessity, I found a route to Walgreen’s that didn’t cross a street.
On one particular day, I saw a trailer drop a big pile of brush in the middle of a road right after my dad left on his Harley. I stood there and looked at the mess. I wanted to get the clippings out of the road so when my dad came back through, he wouldn't hit it and get hurt. Folks called my dad Hoot. I hesitated for a good ten minutes. I looked like a crazy poor person walking back and forth on the road deciding if I should get the mess out of the road or not. I eventually built up the courage to run out on the road and clear the brush out of the way so he didn't hit it with his bike on his way back.
One of my biggest fears is feeling. I don't like to have feelings. Growing up, most of my feelings were negative. I was given Ritalin and had to see a psychologist. I wasn't stupid, I just knew there was something different with me, but I didn't see it as bad. I could understand and work with people which helped me with my jobs and made me successful. My other biggest fear is living.
After I got out of my wheelchair, I had a lot of bills to pay. Disability couldn't move quickly enough and child support was piling up. I dug a lot of ditches which tore me up. I did a lot of manual labor against the doctor's wishes. I started tying flies and guiding.
Fly fishing is not a business that you make
millions from. On a good day, $50-$100
went in my pocket. Regardless, that
thought of helping somebody catch a fish or helping a parent create a memory
with their son or daughter with their first fish on a fly was my main drive.
I have invested all my money (after bills) and time to fly fishing. Some days I eat once a day and three times on
a great day. But it is the sacrifice you make to help others.
A Quick Follow Up
These days, Rooster is guiding folks for trout as well as selling flies and merchandise online. I am included a screen shot of his website and a link as well. I know that he would appreciate any support that folks can send him whether it is just checking out the site, a follow on social media, or any sort of patronage.
Link: https://www.hootscustomflies.com/
















































